ABC Adoption & Me

Written by Gayle H. Swift & Casey A. Swift, M.Ed., Illustrated by Wesley Blauvelt
Revised and Re-illustrated Version Published July 2019, paperback

ABC, Adoption & Me (Revised and Re-illustrated) will warm hearts, deepen understanding of what it means to be an adoptive family and provide teaching moments that bring families closer, connected in truth, compassion, and joy. The book includes a parental guide to assist parents in mastering a nurturing approach to adoption complexity. ABC, Adoption & Me (Revised and Re-illustrated) introduces the concept of Adoption-attunement, a fifteen point strategy for parents and professionals that outlines the best ways to connect and support adoptees, adoptive families, and first families.

Age: Baby – 12 years
Awards 
Finalist 2020 – Indie Book Awards, Children’s Picture Book Non-Fiction (All Ages)
One of 12 notable picture books – 2013 by Shelf Unbound
Favorite Read – of 2013 by Adoptive Families a national adoption magazine
Honorable MentionGittle List of 2014
Finalist – 2014 Book Awards Independent Publishers of New England (IPNE) 
Honorable Mention – 2014 Purple Dragonfly Book Award 
Honorable Mention – 2015 Reader’s Favorite Award

Adoptive families reported that it genuinely helped them explore and discuss adoption with their littles in a way that kids felt supported and that also deepened their connection. This revised version reflects the latest in professional understanding of the complexity of adoption, the challenges of young adoptees, and the conversations and strategies that draw families together in support of one another. Wesley Blauvelt’s dreamy illustrations are evocative and compelling. 

“Breaks new ground in the field of adoption experience integration…deserves every single one of its many awards and should be a part of every child’s library.”
Midwest Book Review
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We're Adopted, So What? Teens Tell It Like It Is

Written by Gayle H. Swift & Casey A. Swift, M.Ed., Illustrated by Wesley Blauvelt
Published January 25, 2020, paperback and Kindle versions available

Being a teenager is tough enough. When you factor in the complexities and challenges of being adopted, it is exponentially harder. The graphic-style book, “We’re Adopted. So What?” features five teen girls who share a huge thing in common: each of them was adopted. This shared experience draws them together yet the distinctions between their experiences are as unique as their personalities. Feisty, fun and outspoken, the girls tackle some tough topics. They share their thoughts and feelings being adopted, how adoption shapes their world and relationships, creates challenges, burdens them with curiosity, frustration, anger, and grief, and shows how they strive to blend together their biological and their adoptive worlds.

Age: 7 – 18 years
Awards: Indie Book Awards, Children/Juvenile Non-Fiction Finalist 2020

This book overflows with practical suggestions for how to navigate the constantly changing seas that adoptees face. The influences of DNA are forever, just as the influence of the adoptive family’s nurturing will permanently shape the child worlds. The process is complicated and can be difficult to articulate. This book provides a way to spark these important conversations with families or friends. It validates and renders compassionate witness to the adoptee experience.

 

"Adoption complexity plus teen identity-building means we need as much insight into the experience of being an adopted teen as we can get! Though written FOR teen adoptees, I also highly recommend this book for their parents, too!"
Lori Holden
Author of the Open-Hearted Way to Open Adoption
"Gayle and Casey Swift have composed a fun yet factual handbook about how adoption feels from a teenager’s perspective. This is probably at level for a “tween” reader as well. Additionally, the illustrations by Wesley Blauvelt are lively and colorful."
Paige Strickland

Reimagining Adoption: What Adoptees Seek From Families and Faith

Written by Gayle H. Swift, CPC & Sally Ankerfelt, M. Div.
Published June 24, 2019, paperback, Kindle and Audiobook available

Love is essential yet not enough. Reinvigorate, reshape and improve the way Christians understand and approach adoption!

Reimagining Adoption: What Adoptees Seek from Families and Faith blends personal experience, expert insights, adoptee interviews, trauma research, and scriptural interpretation so The Church and the Christian community can re-envision adoption for the sake of adoptees and their families. Quotations from adoptees and birth mothers keeps adoptees at its center. Their heartfelt words enliven the book and build a deep empathy for those touched by adoption.
 
Reimagining Adoption: What Adoptees Seek from Families and Faith builds compassion for adoptees and first families as a gateway to truth seeing and truth telling. In that truthful and compassionate space lies the healing and belonging for which adoptees profoundly yearn.
It examines beliefs, practices, and Scripture to attune to the needs of vulnerable children and their families and align with Christian values. It examines the historical adoption practices, reviews current practices and proposes revisions. More importantly, it lifts up the words and lived experience of adult adoptees–the true experts on adoption–and braids them with the insights of adoptive families to craft a new adoption paradigm. 
 

Awards

  • Florida Writer’s Association Gold Award from the 2019 Royal Palm Literary Award Competition
  • 2021 Silver Medal in the Illumination Book Awards which “honor the year’s best new titles written and published with a Christian worldview, 
“This book opens people of faith to a different perspective than what you would normally hear in mainstream media, your church, and your community about adoption. Share it with your pastor, your congregation, and other people of faith.”
Lynn Grubb
Adoptee, Kinship Adoptive Parent. Editor, The Adoptee Survival Guide
"I have been grappling with how faith intersects with cultural identity and family dynamics...reading a book that uses real voices, real words, and real experiences validated my own experience. This book elevated my faith. It is a rare find."
Lolita
Fosteree and child welfare professional